性爱之后

一部无意中在暴风影音看到的推荐，看了几个小故事，不错的对话。

想起一些年少轻狂经历的种种。

每个人心目中都有深藏的秘密，无法表述，无法倾诉，只有偶尔才在心底发现那些已经泛黄的回忆。

[欢愉之后].After.Sex.2007.Festival.DVDRiP.XviD-iNTiMiD.avi

surrender you heart with you heart ,with me, with your soul, surrender to me 也奇怪，外国人，很严重的讨论，还没有我们的文明来的那么早。

那个男孩子的女孩真漂亮。

也可爱。

第四节吧，一对女孩子很糟糕，很无聊。

你就是我穿着闪光盔甲的骑士，always happened，always will be 老了只是讯在伴侣和，一起的回忆问题，谁想要，谁愿意被要。

只是这么简单，和大小形状味道功能作用一点关系没有。

所以这个确实是个精神上的臆识和偏见的问题。

男性化，女性化的问题。

女同性者们总是引领着人群的风潮！

人们生存的语境，精神不同呢。

西方人真是开化的晚了些。

我们很开心是么，为什么要改变么，为什么要管别人的想法，我们很高兴。

i appreciate u。

外国人为什么不脱衣服？！

没有美感！

yesenia我发现了你的本质，你就按照你的理论将我贬低一番。

你为什么和我在一起，我喜欢不同的香水，不同女人的味道，不同的女人。

西班牙天主教很严格的国家啊不过最后“browster brown”应该打死了自己，或许不重要？！

看到verycd上有下载，忍不住重新下下来，又看了一遍。

多好的电影啊。

假如我是教育部长，一定会强烈推荐给全国高校的学生，作为大学期间必看电影之一，看完还要写心得体会，开班会集体讨论。

又或者，如果我能遇到机器猫，我会要它用时间机器带我回到上世纪90年代，去某个中学校园，找到某个为超重烦恼，为体育考试烦恼，无聊的时候爱哼一首奇怪的歌的小孩。

我会告诉他，喂，小孩，虽然《出路》是一首很酷的歌，可是将来很多很多的问题，哼歌也解决不了的。

所以我把这张碟给你，当你遇到头疼问题的时候，你看看这张碟里的电影就好了。

可是，当我和机器猫飞回21世纪，我突然想起来，糟糕，我忘了送他一台电脑了！

"Love is not negotiable.Love is a guessing game,and that’s the beauty of it.There are no guarantees.It’s like diving into a pool of waterwithout knowing if its shallow or deepand sure [yeah] if its shallow you end uphurt and paralyzed from the neck down,but if it's deep…[you know] it's a leap of faith…its like throwing yourself out there withoutany guarantees, and that’s what life’s about.You know those carnival games,you know how some of them are really hard to winand those that are super easy and everyone winswell… that’s the difference between love and sexSex is the game where everyone wins a little prizeand no one goes home a loserand Love is the game that’s really hard to win.but if you do and you get to take home thatlife size stuffed rhinocerosand it feels a whole lot better than takinghome that little shitty plastic key chain."What is love? Who can specify it? Except falling in love at the first sight, does love exist in other forms?Maybe it's when love exists in other forms that it's so difficult for us to admit or to know that we love the other.Sex and love are separable, but sex and love are blended for the people in the stories of this movie. That's why after sex they argued or talked so much. The old couple wanted so much to tell their happy and wild sex they had in their younger days to their children, but they were afraid their children wouldn't be able to accpept it. They weren't sure how their children would react to it. We, as children, date, fool around, have sex behind parents. The experiences may be good, or bad. But whether it's good or bad, we want so much to share them with our parents just as the old couple wanted to share with their children. If it's good, we want to share the happiness with them; if it's bad, we wish we could turn to them for company. But we dare not to tell them. We conceal the experiences we care most from the ones whom we want to confide to most. We and our parents cannot open our hearts to each other. Who should be blamed for this? Why can't we take sex naturally and admit all types of sex? We all hate to be constrained by moral rules and social codes, but they are made by us. Why we human beings torture ourselves?

注意第一片段里面女主角总结的好好，爱情不是人人都可以得到的，sex却很容易满足。

把握身边爱你的人和你爱的人吧

Love is not negotiable. Love is a guessing game. And that's the beauty of it. There's no guarantees. It's like, diving into a pool of water without knowing if it's shallow or deep. And sure yeah, if it's shallow you end up hurt and paralyzed from neck down. But if it's deep, you know, it's a leap of faith. It's like, throwing yourself out there without any guarantees. That's what life is about. Ok, you know those carnival games? And you know some of them are really hard to win and some of them are super easy and everyone wins? It's just, that's the difference between love and sex. Sex is the game where everyone wins a little prize and no one goes home a loser, and love is the game that's really hard to win. But if you do, and you get to take home that life-size stuffed rhinoceros. It feels a whole lot better than taking home a shitty little plastic key chain.

　Love is not negotiable. Love is a guessing game. And that's the beauty of it. There's no guarantees. It's like, diving into a pool of water without knowing if it's shallow or deep. And sure yeah, if it's shallow you end up hurt and paralyzed from neck down. But if it's deep, you know, it's a leap of faith. It's like, throwing yourself out there without any guarantees. That's what life is about. Ok, you know those carnival games? And you know some of them are really hard to win and some of them are super easy and everyone wins? It's just, that's the difference between love and sex. Sex is the game where everyone wins a little prize and no one goes home a loser, and love is the game that's really hard to win. But if you do, and you get to take home that life-size stuffed rhinoceros. It feels a whole lot better than taking home a shitty little plastic key chain.

完事过后，时间指向午夜也就是通常所说的零点你终于抽完了一根不能说短的香烟疲倦，和着不能说出的疲倦在你的脸上交替变幻秒针小心翼翼地指向新一点仿佛你不再属于它们的时间你眨了一下眼，又眨了一下眼灯光在窗外一闪而过黑暗中一种浸泡了的寂静完事过后，就那么孤单的一秒你总是迫不及待地从床上跳了下来在狭小的房间里四处走走看看空气里全是潮湿的云的味道你找不到那个一开始就躲起来的人。

就不要去接近那面镜子它比你想象的更要脆弱有人说：我们的灵魂会因此变得异常薄许多次，我光着身子坐在它的前面有一次，我竟然看见眼前的肉体消失完事过后，只剩下一些冰冷的液体或许，它比我们更加接近现实更加熟悉每一种沐浴露的香味那个时候我们似乎走得更远了当它的冰冷停留在你刚刚愈合的身体外面。

夜色抚平了一切我终于接受了自己偶尔不在的某种事实在这一秒里我似乎过了很多世而你也刚巧是赶到了那儿没有早一步，也没有晚一步……PS：末两句出自于张爱玲的《爱》

虽然是说sex，但很多是关于love的讨论。

关于为什么要上床的问题，关于sex如何让人们认清自己，找到真实的自我的问题。

一切谈话，都过于暧昧了。

如果不那么暧昧的话，会好一点。

这些谈话都是在情人之间或者sex buddy之间进行的，似乎所谈论的都是关乎心理的，而不涉及sex本身的质量。

难道质量就不重要么？

我想这个电影应该是很小成本的电影。

对于一个没有特效，没有故事情节，只有talk的电影来说，如果拍的比写小说散文还烂，那就真的不应该了。

假如影像不能表现自己想说的话的话，那还不如选择用文字表达。