恋爱假期

Hey,girl,你是女强人吧。

你可以很努力，一年剪75个片子；你可以很敬业，把剪辑室搬到了家里，和你的黑莓一起睡。

你可以很聪明，在工作上创意无限，超过所有男性；你可以很坚强，努力地控制着，也努力克制，不让眼泪落下来；你是是软弱的对立面，撒娇的绝缘体，但是你也有属于自己的梦想啊。

你想要吃营养的东西，想读一本书，不是杂志，而是一本好书，不只是看看内容提要，再去臆想书的全貌，却从来都挤不出时间没有仔细去阅读，让你喜爱的书上落满尘埃。

你也不喜欢黑眼圈，不喜欢脸色的灰暗，不喜欢在工作室看着第二天的日出，谁不喜欢漂亮呢？

谁不想安安心心睡个美容觉呢？

过度压力是会让女人加速衰老的。

但你真的已经习惯了这样的频率了吧。

Hey,girl,你是善良女吧。

你可以很执着，为他做任何事，只要他开口；你可以很安静，从不出远门的，只愿生活在有他的城市；你可以很大度，违背自己真实的心意，也绝不会让别人为难；你可以很坚定，相信你的守候终会换来结果，他终会回到你身边，只爱你一个；尽管她在和别人调情，尽管他在和别人暧昧，但只要他需要你就会一直在他身边吧。

他笃定的相信，只要动动小指头，你就会乖乖回到他身边。

他清楚知道你的每一个弱点。

只要一个眼神，只要一句关心的话，你就会义无反顾的回到他身边，帮他做任何事。

你偶尔也会自嘲吧，与其说是他的几分之一个女友，不如说更像是老妈吧。

你也不喜欢弄得自己这么狼狈，把自己的骄傲都丢到墙角，但是你真的已经习惯了这样的频率了吧。

阿曼达和艾瑞斯就是这样的女孩。

一个拥有自己的电影广告公司，全心扑在工作上，常常忘了男友；一个对朝三暮四的男友念念不忘，始终无法释怀。

她和她身上有多少我们的影子啊。

看这部片子时，不禁想起了很多剪影。

我工作到睡着手还放在键盘上的样子；夜晚11点写完稿带着惊恐从东大门那条空无一人的路回寝室的样子；早上刚开电闸就爬起来写文件的样子；大冬天从大活开完会出来在集贸等校车的样子；在考试前还在帮老师整理录音的样子......很多人都看到了我获得的那么多好的机会，却从未看到我在这背后付出的辛酸与努力。

也想到了很多朋友的经历。

也许爱早已不再了，但还是要坚持着，只愿男友能够回到他身边。

很多次看到她哭，在楼梯里，在校园的小路上，在任何任何的地方。

会用尽一切的办法去让他回来，朋友的攻势，匿名QQ好友的方式，楼下等候的方式，学校探班的方式，我不敢告诉你，这样只能让他离你越来越远。

我们都忘了，想要得到别人的爱之前，先要分一点爱给自己。

如阿曼达和艾瑞斯般，给自己一次机会，一次离经叛道的放逐。

易房网站上的陌生人，遥远的英国乡村，未知的L.A都市，全新的环境，全新的际遇，只为找回自己失落的梦想。

当阿曼达自由的一边推着购物车，一边拿着红酒喝，兴致盎然地在超市里闲晃，买自己爱吃的食物时，我笑了。

在这个陌生的地方，不用在乎自己在别人眼中的形象，认识的人没有穿越大洋的眼睛，看不到你现在的样子，你不用伪装成他们喜欢的端庄和干练，Just be yourself.艾瑞斯也发现，原来世界远比她想象得要大得多，坏男人只是世界的一颗尘埃。

畅游在水的怀抱里，乐享在影音的震撼中，兴奋于动感音乐的快乐中，悠游于认识新朋友的体验中。

那些为他掉过的眼泪，在某一个午后的晴空里蒸发掉，了无很久。

很久没有的笑容，终于在她脸上浮现。

真为她开心。

如果，你都无法让自己幸福，那么你又怎么能给你爱的男人幸福呢？

吸引力原则说，每一个思想都带有一定能量，振动频率相同的东西，会相互吸引而引起共鸣。

如果一个人充满了快乐、正面的思想，那么好的人、事、物都会和他起共鸣，而且被他吸引过来。

同样，如果一个人老带着悲观、愤世嫉俗的思想频率，那么难怪常有倒霉的事发生在他身上。

获得了快乐的阿曼达和艾瑞斯，也许不知道，一场美丽的恋情正在悄然接近。

只要你愿意放开原本的束缚，接受他的邀请，加入他的世界，去酒吧举杯畅谈人生，去帮助邻居家的老人实现梦想，幸福原来可以来得这么简单。

我们唯一能主宰的是我们的选择。

想起《他们生活的世界》里说过，有一种现象叫做雪盲。

暴风雪的天气,漫天飞雪,天地素裹,人在雪地里辨不找方向。

在这片白茫茫中,天地浑然一体,世界也随之淡化,全然分不清界限,也无从知晓前方是到底是出路还是悬崖。

我们的生活里,偶尔也会经历类似"雪盲"的这样一种状态。

惶惶然不知所措,惊慌失色的时候,不能保护自己免受伤害的时候,分不清到底是梦境还是现实。

　　 在影片的开始处，阿曼达和艾瑞斯的人生无疑是遭遇到了眼前茫然一片的"雪盲"。

这个时候别无他法,只能停下所有手头的事情,这是唯一可行的办法。

她和她都应该暂时停止哭泣,暂时放下过去，重新找到自己的幸福。

尽管还是会有迷恋,毕竟你对他倾注了太多太多,但人生并不简单。

幸福与不幸、和解与纠葛、怨恨与思念、伤痕与愈合、理想与现实、开始与结尾,这些截然相反的因素不得排解,最终齐集一身,矛盾地共存着,这才是人生。

那些纠葛的瞬间,那无限折腾的人生，也将会重归宁静，我们终将挺过来的。

Hey,girl,just spare some love for yourself.PS：雪盲：在暴风雪中因白光反射丧失方向感甚至失明。

《The Holiday》中提到的Shakespeare的一句话‘’Journeys end in lovers' meeting’‘ 漂泊止于爱人的相遇。

出自Shakespeare的一首爱情诗歌。

全诗在此并附上翻译O Mistress MineO Mistress mine, where are you roaming?O, stay and hear; your true love's coming,That can sing both high and low:Trip no further, pretty sweeting;Journeys end in lovers meeting,Every wise man's son doth know.What is love? 'Tis not hereafter;Present mirth hath present laughter;What's to come is still unsure:In delay there lies not plenty;Then, come kiss me, sweet and twenty,Youth's a stuff will not endure.我的姑娘我的姑娘哦，你要去哪里？

留下，安静倾听，你的真爱正悄悄来临，听它高歌浅吟 停止四处游荡吧，美丽的情人 漂泊止于爱人的相遇，这是人人都懂的道理什么才是爱情？

这就是爱情趁现在尽情的欢笑 未来难以预测 这里没有谎言 那么来亲吻我吧！

妙龄美人！

青春会稍纵即逝

圣诞节的应景之作，猜也猜得到该是怎样的：浪漫（爱情主线）、温馨（一个迟暮老人的复线）、幽默、养眼的帅哥（jude law）和不那么美的美女(diaz)。

伦敦和洛杉矶两地，两个情场失意的女人的假期际遇。

一个爱的妥协，一个爱的强势，结果却都一样，圣诞前落了单，伤了心，忙着躲起来，自己养伤。

假期过完，伤养好，找到Mr Right， 生活还是很美好.1. kate winslet演了个郑秀文的招牌角色，却不如郑演得活灵活现。

游泳游的挺不错。

2. Jack Black不能搞怪要装老实，但是怎么藏也藏不住狡黠的眼神，搞笑的。

可惜戏份比较少，人长得不帅就是吃亏。

3. Jude Law是个帅帅单身爸爸，女儿天使一样，还会做缝纫，这么讨巧的角色，自然是无敌了。

4. Diaz还是《哈拉玛丽》里那头轻爽金色短发，就是真的老多了，那一身身冬装很好看，角色还是有点傻大姐的感觉。

5. 那个写剧本的老爷爷（连名字都叫Arthur），对爱情颇有见地，说得话都很有启发性。

6. 以洛杉矶为背景的故事和电影工业有千丝万缕的联系，写剧本的，做trailer的，给电影配乐的，我也想有那个一正面都放得电影的房子。

7. 广告太明显了，sony的广告到处都是。

8. 贺岁嘛，重在掺和。

Dustin Hoffman漏了个脸。

Edward Burns也演了个配角，看过他和Dustin合作的Confidence，现在只记得他这张像本 阿弗莱克的帅脸了。

9. 虽然肯定不会成为像《真爱至上》那样的经典，还是看的很开心。

后面快到结尾，还小感动了。

10. 为了凑10条，台词一句："Iris, in the movies, we have leading ladies and we have the best friend. You, I can tell, are a leading lady but for some reason, you're behaving like the best friend“ 大家好好体会。

看了这部电影很久以后，大概我今天的情感输出欲望特别强，于是我还是想来散播一下影片带给我的浪漫情怀。

英国的小镇Surrey，镇上有一座童话般的小木屋，屋子里住着个痴情的女子，她叫Iris。

深爱着抛弃她的男同事，多年挣扎在抬头不见低头见的水深火热之中，终于在圣诞派对上得知他订婚的消息。

L.A，豪华大别墅。

Amanda，15岁父母离异后就再也没掉过泪，独立经营着一家电影广告公司，面对男友外遇，竟流不出一滴眼泪。

于是两个女孩决定交换房屋，在这个圣诞，给心情放个假。

好像台湾对该片的翻译——恋爱没有假期Iris遇见了Miles ，Amanda遇见了Graham。

Miles，作曲家。

可以单凭指尖弹奏，就能演绎出一个人的性格“Iris if you were a melody I use only the good notes.”Graham，温柔的情人，慈爱的父亲。

那个一身西装醉酒的男人，那个穿着浅蓝色针织衫的居家男人，那个睡衣慵懒戴着黑框眼镜的斯文男人，那个会泪流满面感性得无辜的男人。

Jude Law拿捏得恰到好处，自然得像是本色流露，好像能闻见他毛衣上体香。

于是我再一次在他的英伦气质中沉沦。

Jude Law，在我眼里一直是世界上最英俊的男人。

英俊得好像古希腊的雕塑，只有真正的美女才有资格跟他配戏。

比如《Cold Moutain》的妮可，比如《Enemy At The Gate》的Rachel Weisz，卡梅隆也是绝对完美的名媛闺秀。

能欣赏到这对人儿，着实万分养眼据说二人假戏真做，现在已成了一对异国鸳鸯。

不想对电影细加评论，总喜欢在一边看的时候就随手记下点东西，是当时的一点心情，是其中能触动我的点滴。

而一旦带上理性的思考或非要说出现貌似专业的客观的话，便丧失了当初纯粹的快乐。

一个并不新颖的故事，一个old fashion的happy ending却能在一个人的礼拜六深深打动我。

谁不曾为情困为情伤，当桑塔安娜吹起——加州冬日的暖风所有的不快都会烟消云散，Anything can happen，那便是它触动我的地方。

I have found almost everything ever written about love to be true.Shakespeare said,"Journeys end in lovers meeting."What an exordinary thought.Personally,I have no experienced anything remotely close to that,but I'm more than willing to believe Shakespeare had.I suppose I think about love more than anyone really should I'm constantly amazed by its sheer power to alter and be fine our lives.It was Shakespeare who also said,"Love is blind."Now that is something I know to be true.For some,quite inexplicably,love fades;For others,love is simply lost;But then,of course,love can also be found,even if just for the night;And then there's another kind of love,the crulest kind,the one that almost kills its victims.It's called unrequited love.Most love stories are about people who fall in love with each other.But about the rest of us?What about our stories?Those of us who fall in love alone,we are the victims of the one-sided affair.We are the cursed of the loved ones.We are the unloved ones,the walking wounded,the handicapped without the advantage of a great parking space.Yes,you are looking at one such individuel.And I have willingly loved that man for over 3 miserable years.The abasolute worst years of my life.The worst Chistmases,the worst birthdays.New year'Eves brought i'm by tears and Valium.These years I've been in love have been the darkest days of my life,all because I'm cursed by being in love with a man who dose not and will not love me back.Oh,god,just the sight of him,heart pounding,throat thickeming,absolutely can't swallow,all the usual symptoms.It men always know just how to get us.He knows whenever he wants back in our life.What I'm trying to say is I understand feeling as small and as insignificant as humanly possible.How it can actually ache in places that you didn't know you had inside you.It doesn't matter how many new haircuts you get or gyms you join or how many glasses of chardonnay you drink with girl friends.You still go to bed every night going over every detail and wonder what you did wrong or how you could have misunderstood.And how in the hell for that brief moment you could think that you were that happy?And sometimes you can even convince yourself that he'll see the light and show up at your door.And after all that,however long "all that" maybe.You'll go somewhere new and you'll meet people who make you feel worthwhile again.And little pieces of your soul will finally come back and all that fuzzy stuff those years of your life that you wasted that will eventually begin to fade.Let's say we just make long-distance relationships happen,we commit to flying back and forth as much as we can.And then let's say in 6 months we hit a wall,like I can't constantly be away from work,or girls can't deal with you leaving so often.And we start to feel the tension,we know this isn't gonna work,so we start fighting because we don't know what else to do.And then,after a long,tearful...at your end...phonecall...we just...we say goodbye.That'll be it,for real.It's not like we'll ever bump into each other.And then what's left?2 miserable people feeling totally mashed up and hurt,or maybe we should just realize that what we've had these past few weeks has been perfect.And maybe it won't get any better than this,maybe we're trying to figure this thing out because it makes us feel good to feel this.Maybe the fact that I'm leaving in 8 hours make this far more exciting than it might actually be."You are,seriously,the mostdepressing girl I've ever met."I'm not feeling this because you're leaving,and not because it feels good to feel this way.Which,by the way,it does...or did,before you went off like that.I can't figure out the mathecuatics of this,I just know I love you.And I never thought I'd feel this way again.So that's pretty phenomenal but I finally know what I want and that,in itself,is a miracle.And what I want is you.

这部片子很好，像一颗闪闪发光的小小钻石。

它描述了一种叫做“爱”的东西，纯洁而充满力量的一面。

在“纯洁”这个词已经被用烂了，“力量”这个词已经用淡了的时候，我们还能从这个片子里看到这两个词在初创时的明亮与浓重。

这两个词语刚刚来到这个世界上的时候，前者象婴儿的眼睛，后者象婴儿的拳头，是生命中充满亮色的生长。

后来，随着人类的成长，这两个词语被反复使用，一直用到皱巴巴的。

词语不像别的东西，新的乐曲可以从指尖流出，新的款式可以被剪裁出来，词语不是，他们随着人类年龄的成长而变老，一直伴随着我们。

如同台词中的love fades, 词语也会fades。

没有新的替代，使用越来越频繁，越来越不经过大脑，越来越象词语简单的连缀，为表达的连缀，句子都是旧的，就像是电脑里的Ctrl+c然后Ctrl+v,不是从土地里新生长出来的。

是的，词语，语言，本是同农作物一样，充满了生命，表达的欲望如同种子，酝酿挣扎着从地下破土而出，就像婴儿一直在听一直在看，在呼哧呼哧急急切切语不成调的单音节后，终于有了一个人生中第一个词汇。

我们无法回忆婴儿时发出第一个词语的急迫，我们长大了，我们成熟了，我们将语言作为一个交流工具熟稔地使用着。

偏题了。

偏题这麽多，是因为生命中还有很多段落，如同语言，遗失在成长的过程当中。

来到这个世界很多年，来到这个社会很多年，我们对世界很熟悉了，我们对生活很熟悉了，我们已经习惯了，并且将习惯下去。

我们熟悉地操作着我们的工作，如同Copy Paste。

包括爱。

一切熟悉地可以快速运转起来，便显得面目模糊。

再快点，就面目全非。

我们对生活已然熟悉，我们更习惯于调侃它，讽刺它。

我们认为我们已经看透了它。

我们凉薄一些，生活对我们的伤害就少一些。

判断爱，相信爱变成一件有难度的事情，因为有太多的鱼目混珠。

这个片子娓娓道来一个，就是一个爱的故事。

它安静地在一边闪闪发光，宁静，温暖，有力量。

它属于每个人。

披着爱的外衣实则伤害了你的东西不叫做爱，它们只是装作爱的样子，从你的身上吸取了能量，吸取了你的光和热。

真正的爱，给予你力量，给予你温暖和信心。

让你像农作物一样破土而出，欣欣然立在阳光雨露中，生长。

这部电影不是一个关于有没有，遇不遇的美好、想象、期待；而是一个什么是爱是非判断。

所以喜欢它。

电影配乐极好，熠熠流畅的一件水外套。

我们能够为别人伤心哭泣的时候，我们不能摆脱一个人影子的时候，我们感到委屈却不知道原因的时候，我们恋爱了。

我们拖着旅行箱不敢停留，却始终走不出自己和那个人纠缠起来的小麻烦。

我们被爱情刺中的时候，就彻底失去了一个人的坦然。

Arthur Abbott: Say a man and a woman both need something to sleep in and both go to the same men's pajama department. The man says to the salesman, "I just need bottoms," and the woman says, "I just need a top." They look at each other and that's the 'meet cute.'Amanda: You know Graham, I just broke up with someone and considering you just showed up and you're insanely good-looking and probably won't remember me anyway... I'm thinking we should have sex... If you want.Graham: Is that a trick question?Graham: I have the classic male problem of no follow through. Absolutely never remember to call after a date - but as this wasn't a date, I guess I'm off the hook.Iris: Because you're hoping you're wrong. And every time she does something that tells you she's no good, you ignore it. And every time she comes through and suprises you, she wins you over, and you lose that argument with yourself, that she's not for you.Miles: Exactly, and on top of that there's the old standby, I can't believe a girl like that would actually be with a guy like me.Miles: Iris, if you were a melody... I used only the good notes.Miles: Don't blow away.Arthur Abbott: Iris, in the movies, we have leading ladies and we have the best friend. You, I can tell, are a leading lady, but for some reason, you're behaving like the best friend.Iris: You're supposed to be the leading lady in your own life, for God's sake!Iris: I've found almost everything ever written about love to be true. Shakespeare said "Journeys end in lovers meeting." What an extraordinary thought. Personally, I have not experienced anything remotely close to that, but I am more than willing to believe Shakespeare had. I suppose I think about love more than anyone really should. I am constantly amazed by its sheer power to alter and define our lives. It was Shakespeare who also said "love is blind". Now that is something I know to be true. For some quite inexplicably, love fades; for others love is simply lost. But then of course love can also be found, even if just for the night. And then, there's another kind of love: the cruelest kind. The one that almost kills its victims. Its called unrequited love. Of that I am an expert. Most love stories are about people who fall in love with each other. But what about the rest of us? What about our stories, those of us who fall in love alone? We are the victims of the one sided affair. We are the cursed of the loved ones. We are the unloved ones, the walking wounded. The handicapped without the advantage of a great parking space! Yes, you are looking at one such individual. And I have willingly loved that man for over three miserable years! The absolute worst years of my life! The worst Christmas', the worst Birthday's, New Years Eve's brought in by tears and valium. These years that I have been in love have been the darkest days of my life. All because I've been cursed by being in love with a man who does not and will not love me back. Oh god, just the sight of him! Heart pounding! Throat thickening! Absolutely can't swallow! All the usual symptoms.Iris: It doesn't matter how many new haircuts you get, or gyms you join, or how many glasses of chardonnay you drink with your girlfriends... you still go to bed every night going over every detail and wonder what you did wrong or how you could have misunderstood. and how in the hell for that brief moment you could think that you were that happy. And sometimes you can even convince yourself that he'll see the light and show up at your door. And after all that, however long all that may be, you'll go somewhere new. and you'll meet people who make you feel worthwhile again. And little peices of your soul will finally come back. And all that fuzzy stuff, those years of your life that you wasted, that will eventually begin to fade.

《恋爱假期》，一个关于恋爱、失恋、再恋爱的电影，温情、浪漫，以下是个人喜欢，整理的电影台词(中英文对照)。。

1、一场巧遇(两个主人公相遇,在电影里)This was some meet-cute (It’s how two characters meet …, … in a movie .)比如说一男一女，Say a man and a women …他们都需要买睡衣，…Both need something to sleep in .他们都到了同一家睡衣店，And they both go to the same mers pajama department .好的，-男的跟售货员说：“我只要下半截”， Right , - And the man says to the salesman : “I just need bottoms.”-女的跟售货员说：“我只要上半截”，The woman says : “ I just need a top .”两人四目相投，这就是“巧遇”。

They look at each other , and that’s the : “meet-cute”. 2、Why am I attracted to a person I know isn’t good ?我为什么总被那些 我知道不适合的人吸引I happen to know the answer to this . You’re hoping you’re wrong .我正好知道这个答案，因为你希望你是错的。

She does something that tells you she’s no good ,you ignore it .你知道在某些方面 她不适合你 但你却无视了Every time she comes through and surprises you , she wins you over …但她每次给你带来惊喜时 你就投降了… and you lose that argument with yourself that she’s not for you .。。。

说服不了自己 觉得她不适合你Exactly .. 没错3、“I can’t believe a girl like that would be with a guy like me ”“不敢相信会有那样的女生喜欢上我”4、It turned out that he wasrt in love with me like I thought .最终发现他并没有我想象的那么爱我What I’m trying to say is …我想说的是。。。

…I understand feeling as small and as insignificant as humanly possible .我能体会到人类 最难体会到的渺小和无助How it can actually ache in places that you didn’t know you had inside you .那就好像你的心窝 被人狠狠地刺了一针It doesn’t matter how many new haircuts you get …无论你怎么换发型 。。。

… or gyms you join …。。。

或者去健身房锻炼 。。。

… or how many glasses of chardonnay you drink with girlfriends .。。。

还是和好友一起喝香槟畅谈You still go to bed every night going over every detail …每晚上床后还是会重复每一个细节… and wonder what you did wrong or how you could have misunderstood.。。。

问自己哪里做得不对 还是自己误会了什么And how in the hell , for that brief moment you could think that you were that happy ?怎么可能会有那么一秒 以为自己是幸福的And sometimes you can even convince yourself that he’ll see the light and show up at you door .有时自己还确信 他会清醒过来 出现在我的面前And after all that …经历了那些付出之后 。。。

… however long “all that ” may be …。。。

不管付出了多少 。。。

… you’ll go somewhere new .。。。

你去了新的地方And you’ll meet people who make you feel won’thwhile again .遇见了会珍惜自己的人And little pieces of your soul will finally come back .还能找回灵魂失落的碎片And all that fuzzy stuff …过往一切的小细节 。。。

… those years of your life that you wasted …。。。

还有那几年被忽视的日子 。。。

… that will eventually begin to fade .。。。

最终会慢慢淡去 5、Jasper…嘉士伯。。。

… you have never treated me right .。。。

你从来没有珍惜过我-Ever-从来没有You broken my heart .你伤了我的心And you acted like somehow it was my fault …还假装说是我的错。。。

…my misunderstanding , and I was too in love with you …。。。

是我误解了你 我以前太爱你 。。。

… to ever be mad at you , so I just punished myself !For years !。。。

不舍得对你发脾气 所以我几年来一直 惩罚自己！

But you waltzing in here on my lovely Christmas holiday …可你就这么笃悠悠的 闯进我的圣诞假日 。。。

… and telling me that you don’t want to lose me …。。。

告诉我你不想失去我 。。。

… whilst you’re about to get married …然后准备跟人结婚… somehow newly entitles me to say …现在我终于可以说出这句话… It’s over .我们结束了This … This twisted ,toxic thing between us …我们之间这扭曲 害人的关系 。。。

… is finally finished !。。。

终于结束了！

I’m miraculously done being us in love with you !我不可思议的 不再爱你了！

I’ve got a life to start living 我还有新的生活-And you’re not going to be in it . – Darling …- 而你不会出现在其中 - 亲爱的

喜剧爱情片，讲述两位都受到男友背叛的美女恰巧在网上相遇，而两人做出一个大胆的决定：把自己的房子和自己的一切交换供对方度假。

不恶俗很甜蜜很可爱的爱情小品，失恋的女生一定要看！

好喜欢这样唯美纯爱的剧情。

感谢美剧，感谢电影，让我还保持爱和感动的能力。

如果不是看了那么多美剧，那么多电影，我也许早就不相信世界上还有爱情这种虚无缥缈的存在了。

每个人都该当自己人生的主角，但是人生不像电影可以拍很多条，加上后期剪辑制作。

人生永远都是现场直播，没有重新来过的机会。

现在的我也了解自己，哪怕依旧相信爱情，却也不知道该如何去谈恋爱了。

能拥有平淡的生活，才是幸福。

但是这种简单的幸福，却是现在最难求的。